8 INGREDIENTS 4 A LASTING MARRIAGE :
1 . recognize that no man can love u as much as u want to be loved. Only God can. Run to Him first. Spend time in His word and in prayer. It will relief pressure in ur marriage.
2. Have a few close girlfriends wit whom u can share ur heart. These should be women who r 4 ur marriage,always pushing u 2 Christ & toward ur husband.
3. Pray daily 4 ur husband 4 God to bless him,4 him to know how much God loves him, 4 his professional needs and 4 God to give him some Christian guy friends.
4. Make time wit him a priority. Put him b4 d kids. Establish a regular date night & keep it.
5. Hit d delete button on ur mental list of the things he does wrong. Instead, ask God to remind u of one trait in him every day and tell ur husband about it. This is ur daily marriage vitamin.
6. Do fun, silly, new things together and nurture laugher.
7. Be quick to ask 4 forgiveness and to forgive, even if u don't feel like or want to. Healing takes time but the healing process begins wit forgiveness.
8. Refuse the temptation to "emotionally withdraw" and u will be tempted - many times, recognize it, resist it, instead, do whatever it takes to grow closer to each other.
Know that marriage is a gift. Your husband is a gift. And wit God at the center of ur union, u can grow closer as the years increase.
I love couples. And I pray that God who established marriage will be at the centre of marriage to keep it growing in love and Unity.
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1 . recognize that no man can love u as much as u want to be loved. Only God can. Run to Him first. Spend time in His word and in prayer. It will relief pressure in ur marriage.
2. Have a few close girlfriends wit whom u can share ur heart. These should be women who r 4 ur marriage,always pushing u 2 Christ & toward ur husband.
3. Pray daily 4 ur husband 4 God to bless him,4 him to know how much God loves him, 4 his professional needs and 4 God to give him some Christian guy friends.
4. Make time wit him a priority. Put him b4 d kids. Establish a regular date night & keep it.
5. Hit d delete button on ur mental list of the things he does wrong. Instead, ask God to remind u of one trait in him every day and tell ur husband about it. This is ur daily marriage vitamin.
6. Do fun, silly, new things together and nurture laugher.
7. Be quick to ask 4 forgiveness and to forgive, even if u don't feel like or want to. Healing takes time but the healing process begins wit forgiveness.
8. Refuse the temptation to "emotionally withdraw" and u will be tempted - many times, recognize it, resist it, instead, do whatever it takes to grow closer to each other.
Know that marriage is a gift. Your husband is a gift. And wit God at the center of ur union, u can grow closer as the years increase.
I love couples. And I pray that God who established marriage will be at the centre of marriage to keep it growing in love and Unity.
Follow up my post on Facebook, instagrams and Pinterest . You can login to www.raphaeludo.blogspot.com.
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