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Why Do Relationships Fail?

 Balance... Single people have lots of time to rejuvenate, pamper, process, prissy, ponder, pontificate and produce. They can choose to go to the bank, sit in a bath, watch tv, eat chocolate, work late, fart, walk, go out, take a date, have sex, sleep alone, talk about anything they want with whoever they want. No guilt, no peering eyes, no judgemental overlord. So, the minute people get into relationships, some part of them is in serious grief for the days when they were single. And it's any wonder. Being single, looks great, from the outside. But what many people forget, is that most of those benefits can be achieved in a relationship and that they were single and hated it. Otherwise why wouldn't they still be single. So, the first answer as to why relationships fail is that we are perpetually dumb and blame the relationship for our incompetence at work, our lack of self management, our ridiculously busy lifestyle - in other words "we blame relationship for the crap in ...

EPISODE 20

***WHEN YOU WHERE THERE*** Episode 20.    It's two months and two weeks and Mona's flow hadn't come.     Fellowship members began to notice d drastic change in Mona's body and questions began to roll in. Mona was scared of the changes she noticed in her body but she tried to dismiss the thought of pregnancy, the Bible says that whatever is not planted by my heavenly father shall be rooted out, so this pregnancy or assumed pregnancy can't remain, she declared within herself. Sister Pelline was assigned by her fellowship sisters to find out what was going on with the changes in Mona's body. At first, sister Pelline quickly put up a defense for Mona saying that it was development, knowing that soon, she'll be transitioning into adulthood, but when it became obvious and her fellowship sisters insisted, she decided to comply    One Wednesday evening, after dinner, sister Pelline decided to ask Mona. Mona, there's something I want to discus with y...

REVIEW OF EPISODE 1-19

***WHEN YOU WHERE THRER*** Brief review from episode 1-19. Mona is the only daughter of Mr/Mrs Vooli. Mr Vooli was a medical doctor and his wife a pastor.    Their death was mysterious as they were both poisoned because of their wealth.    Mona was only 16years old wen she lost her parents and her uncles deprived her of all her parents wealth so Mona had to live with her grandmother, (mother's mother) in the village.    Mona is a light skinned slim lady with an average height and a bright eyes accompanied with a beautiful dental when she smiles. Mona soon got admission into higher institution and decided to read law because of her ordeal with her uncles.    Kester one the other hand is a student of same school, but running his Master's program.    Kester heard about this new brilliant and chaste student who everyone seems to be talking about and promised his friends that he must have her in bed.   I want this girl...

Sinusitis: What Causes Sinus? Do You Suffer From It?

     By Joseff Bichler When the arteries and veins of the sinuses swell and expand, there is nasal congestion and sinus which becomes worse as days pass by. A lot of unwanted material thus remains entrapped in the nasal passage resulting in blockage like mucus, air and pus. A person having this sinus problem experiences pain and extreme discomfort and the pain usually starts from under the eye region and moves towards the jaw and can also be mistaken as either a headache or toothache. Sinus be caused due to many reasons like allergies, bacterial, fungal and viral infections and the mucus that accumulates in the nasal passage and inflames the nose. Also, people experience runny nose along with headache and jaw ache and also fever and flu, sometimes along with bad breath as the nasal lined with thick secretions and becomes a cause to congestion. If these conditions are not treated at the right time, serious complications can develop. Although, because of the adva...
***WHEN YOU WHERE THERE*** Episode 21    In a long while, Kester had battled with the guilt he felt whenever he think about what he did to Mona. But through the help of "new creation" teachings, from his fellowship, he has been able to convince himself that he is a new creation in Christ, hence, old things are passed away, and all things become new, though sometimes, the thought of guilt often over ride his heart.     Kester decided to change his number to avoid contact with Mona until he was ready to face her and tell her the truth.     His fellowship president promises to help him with the process.    Kester is really growing fast in his new faith and has decided to change his name from Kester to Paul as he often regarded himself as Saul of tarsus now Paul, though he hasn't official changed the name.    Mona have never been to Kester's place so she didn't know how to find him.    She was worry and wondering why K...